I have been telling myself for awhile that if I really wanted to improve then I would do it. Ultimately I needed I big push and outside accountability. It is annoying that I need this outside accountability since with anything that I have or need to do for others gets done no problem. In this journey I have learned that it is part of who I am that I work this way. Check out Gretchen Rubin's Four Tendencies Quiz to learn more about this (http://gretchenrubin.com/happiness_project/2015/01/ta-da-the-launch-of-my-quiz-on-the-four-tendencies-learn-about-yourself/).
So I am an Obliger and the text book definition of one. But knowing that has made me understand that I need help. Now I really want to go forward and help is here. Things work out when they should.
If you really want to get somewhere different you have to understand what motivates you and work within that knowledge. Ultimately mediation is always a good place to keep yourself going as you move forward. Use each day to focus on moving ahead and taking others with you.
Namaste

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